Guys always wonder why they have such a bad rep when it comes to cheating…by golly I think I figured it out!!!  Now, I may be generalizing a bit, but in most of my experiences with men and dealing with my friend’s heartache, I am led to be very un-trusting of the opposite sex.  I have to tell you that, ultimately it is the behavior of men in relationships that can make us girls go absolutely insane.   (I am saving the “girls are crazy” blog for another day).  You boys always wonder why us girls get so jealous and intimidated by other women..well, allow me to enlighten you…a couple of nights ago I am at a local bar when I see a friend of mine.  Now mind you, this dude is actually pretty cool, successful and for the most part a genuinely nice guy.  Towards the end of the night, he grabs my face and kisses me.  When I say “kiss” I don’t mean a friendly peck, I mean a full on romantic “Oh my gosh did I put in a breath mint” kind of kiss.  If homeboy didn’t have a gorgeous girlfriend, this situation would have been awesome.  Blog buddies, ya’ll should know that I didn’t immediately push him away even though I knew he was dating someone, and I feel absolutely awful for it.  I could totally be one of those girls who would hold out and pretend that he really liked me and that maybe someday soon he will break up with his significant other for me.  But I won’t.   I mean, am I cooler than her? Darn straight, but I refuse to put myself in that position.  Boys I am not saying that girls are innocent, in fact girls are just as dishonest.  I realize that there will always and forever be temptation outside of relationships, but I feel that if ya’ll (guys and girls) aren’t strong enough to resist these temptations then you shouldn’t be in a relationship anyway.  Personally I think there should be more single people in the world. That way we can make-out with whoever we want and not feel guilty for it later. 

Team Solo 2009!!!!

See what I mean?!?!