I have no tolerance for sloots and let me tell you why… there is nothing worse than falling “in like” with a guy only to find out that he is only in it for the booty.  I cannot tell you how many times I have felt so disappointed and heartbroken because homeboy was never really interested in me, my beliefs or my awesomeness, he was only interested in gettin’ in my britches.  This is a horrible feeling and I am sure that at some point in our lives, women will have experienced the wrath of a dude’s sexual priorities.  I have thought long and hard about this and what we as women can do to prevent douche bags from treating us this way.  Girls…we are the reason that men “expect” things, we are reason that dudes only involve themselves in relationships for the sole purpose of doing the deed.  In order to receive respect, one must demand it.  It is my belief that sloots will never receive that respect and I can promise you girls this…dude’s will never respect a female if she gives up the goods too quickly. If you didn’t already know, sloots are the girls that the guys will sit around and talk about. I’ve seen it happen, guys will compare their conquests much like they would old football stories.  I will never understand how women, especially younger women behave this way, but I am pretty sure I have diagnosed this problem and I want all of you girls to read and understand this, because this may be the best piece of advice I ever give.  We want attention, actually we love attention, but let’s be honest, at what price are we willing to pay for a little affection from the opposite sex?  Many women seek attention from men and they use their sexuality to get it.  Now I don’t know if these girls have daddy issues or if they just have a low self-esteem but I can almost promise you that giving up your body for a small amount affection is only a quick fix.  Relations with random dudes will not raise your self esteem and it sure as heck will not get you the appropriate attention you deserve.  Now, I know I sound like a prude and maybe so, but I am not saying sex is bad, as long as it is meaningful and done safely.  Girls run the risk of getting heartbroken, diseased and a bad reputation and neither of those is worth a man’s attention.  A man will only treat a woman as good as she allows herself to be treated, so for future reference ladies, check yourself before you wreck yourself.   Next time you are crawling in the back seat of a Honda Civic with Brad, realize that your irresponsibility and slootyness is ultimately affecting the way you will be treated by men for the rest of your life. 

Done and Done. 

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