Here we go again…
Nancy (15) asks:
Ok well there’s this guy i like i dated him for about two years & we broke up but i still have feelings for him. were really close now still but it’s not the same as before. i’ve known him for a while now is there anyway i could make him see it was a loss for him?…
Bitter Betty Says:
Alright Princess..I’ve said this before and I have a feeling I am going to have to say it again and again and again. Move along. I get it, you like a boy who doesn’t like you back. Now you want to make him realize how awesome you are so he comes crawling back and you two will live happily ever after. I hate to burst your bubble, but if he thought you were that awesome, you would be together right now, instead of writing me for advice. Every girl likes to make her ex believe that he has lost something great and I am sure that this poor boy doesn’t realize what he has lost. but come on girl…what are you waiting for? You are basically asking me what you can do to make your ex want you back. Read that last sentence again and really think about how awful that sounds..relationships are NOT THIS COMPLICATED. I can’t tell you how many times I say this a day. You should NEVER work that hard…if you aren’t together, there is a reason. If he does not want to be with you, dressing cute and flirting with his friends isn’t gonna win him over. Girls, we are way too good to stoop this low. Get over him, if it is meant to be…it will be, but don’t over analyze and stress over ways to get him back in a relationship. It is exhausting and totally not worth it. So put on those high heels and a smile…one day there is going to be a boy that already knows how awesome you are, and you’ll realize that what you are doing now is stupid.
Hope that helps!!!
Sincerly,
Bitter Betty